The chronicles of the wife of a doctor as they journey through a life of schooling, residency, and everything in between.
Saturday, May 28, 2011
Moving Realization #3
I have less stuff than I thought I did. At least, that's how it seems. Maybe our current place could more storage or maybe I was just really, really bad at storing it. Whatever the case, I'm glad since we rented a kind of smallish truck. Here's to hoping that everything fits...
Friday, May 27, 2011
New Title
In honor of Spencer's new title, I've dropped the "future" from the header/title of this blog. After 5 years of marriage I can finally say I'm married to a doctor! Now we just have to wait about 5 more for him to start making the big bucks! Until then...a job huntin' I will go. :)
Thursday, May 26, 2011
Graduation and Such
Well, it's official. We done gradu-a-mated. The ceremony was last Friday and we had almost all the family in town from brothers and sisters to grandma and grandpa. The weather was lovely for a change. Our families were spoiled! After they left it dropped back down to freezing after having been a pleasant 60-70 degrees all weekend. At some point I may or may not share more pictures, more information, and just more in general about graduation, but for now I'll just sum it up.
Thursday night we had an awards dinner for Spencer's medical class. We went and were sat (assigned seating) at a table with one of his classmates and her parents, grandparents, boyfriend, and boyfriend's parents. They all were meeting for the first time. Fun! The dinner was excellent, but the awards were, well, boring. Maybe because Spencer (or anyone else I knew) didn't win anything. But hey, that's how awards ceremonies are, right?
Friday morning the assorted relatives gathered at our place for breakfast, we took pictures, and my mom, dad, and sister headed out with me for the graduate student lunch. The lunch, again, was excellent. They even had complimentary campagne (they didn't for the medical students the night before). Our table must have looked kind of funny though because half of us don't drink, and a few also didn't like champagne. Wisconsin is a very alcohol-heavy environment though. They even gave my 19 year old sister one! At the lunch we were also put on the spot to say something so I got up and thanked people, and made a joke about not eating cereal anymore. After that, we lined up, marched in, sat for about 2 hours (or rather napped), got the diploma, took pictures, and went out for dinner at Carabbas. Afterwards we treated the non-natives to frozen custard, which was an instant hit. Spencer's dad started out with 2 scoops then went back for 2 more!!
Saturday and Sunday were spent with the family seeing the sights, shopping, and lots and lots of eating. All in all it was great having everyone around. It was crazy, but we had a really good time with everyone and got to do a lot of touristy type things that you don't normally do when you live somewhere.
Phew. And that was the short version. So much for that. :)
Now, it's onward and upward to the next big phase of our doctoring lives: residency!
Thursday night we had an awards dinner for Spencer's medical class. We went and were sat (assigned seating) at a table with one of his classmates and her parents, grandparents, boyfriend, and boyfriend's parents. They all were meeting for the first time. Fun! The dinner was excellent, but the awards were, well, boring. Maybe because Spencer (or anyone else I knew) didn't win anything. But hey, that's how awards ceremonies are, right?
Friday morning the assorted relatives gathered at our place for breakfast, we took pictures, and my mom, dad, and sister headed out with me for the graduate student lunch. The lunch, again, was excellent. They even had complimentary campagne (they didn't for the medical students the night before). Our table must have looked kind of funny though because half of us don't drink, and a few also didn't like champagne. Wisconsin is a very alcohol-heavy environment though. They even gave my 19 year old sister one! At the lunch we were also put on the spot to say something so I got up and thanked people, and made a joke about not eating cereal anymore. After that, we lined up, marched in, sat for about 2 hours (or rather napped), got the diploma, took pictures, and went out for dinner at Carabbas. Afterwards we treated the non-natives to frozen custard, which was an instant hit. Spencer's dad started out with 2 scoops then went back for 2 more!!
Saturday and Sunday were spent with the family seeing the sights, shopping, and lots and lots of eating. All in all it was great having everyone around. It was crazy, but we had a really good time with everyone and got to do a lot of touristy type things that you don't normally do when you live somewhere.
Phew. And that was the short version. So much for that. :)
Now, it's onward and upward to the next big phase of our doctoring lives: residency!
Monday, May 16, 2011
Moving Realization #2
I'm beginning to see the logic in e-books and e-book readers. We started packing the books first. We are using fairly small boxes since they tend to get heavy pretty fast, but we have already packed about 15 boxes just of books. And that's only about half of them. Plus the DVDs and Wii games....
I've tried to pare down our inventory. Believe me, I have. It's just--there's nothing quite like the smell of a book, the feel of the pages, and the sound the pages make when you turn them. Some people never re-read their books; I do. To me, that justifies keeping them around, even if they do take up space and weigh ten tons.
On a brighter note, after the books we pretty much just own clothing and kitchen wares.
PS: 3 more weeks to moving!!
I've tried to pare down our inventory. Believe me, I have. It's just--there's nothing quite like the smell of a book, the feel of the pages, and the sound the pages make when you turn them. Some people never re-read their books; I do. To me, that justifies keeping them around, even if they do take up space and weigh ten tons.
On a brighter note, after the books we pretty much just own clothing and kitchen wares.
PS: 3 more weeks to moving!!
Wednesday, May 4, 2011
Moving Realization #1
I have way, Way, WAY too much stuff.
But I will never have enough yarn. Ever. Even though I totally just filled two 35 gallon Rubbermaid containers with it....hehehe. :)
But I will never have enough yarn. Ever. Even though I totally just filled two 35 gallon Rubbermaid containers with it....hehehe. :)
Tuesday, May 3, 2011
Cruise!
Here's a brief list of highlights from our recent cruise:
1. Cabo: seeing whales, awesome snorkeling, the most amazing taco restaurant with a Beatles-enthused owner/chef.
2. Puerta Vallerta: Long boat trip on a small little skiff, seeing tons of tropical fish, hiking around a small little village with tons of stray dogs, holding an iguana
3. Awesome shows: Second City, Justino and Daniella (magician), and an acrobatic couple
4. Games and meals with the entire family--27 people in all!
Alissa and me with our a towel rabbit. |
1. Cabo: seeing whales, awesome snorkeling, the most amazing taco restaurant with a Beatles-enthused owner/chef.
2. Puerta Vallerta: Long boat trip on a small little skiff, seeing tons of tropical fish, hiking around a small little village with tons of stray dogs, holding an iguana
3. Awesome shows: Second City, Justino and Daniella (magician), and an acrobatic couple
4. Games and meals with the entire family--27 people in all!
First meal on the ship. |
Our ship, the Norwegian Star. |
Whale! |
Another shot of the whale. |
Beach in Cabo. |
Two good looking brothers. |
What a cute family! |
Silly boys! |
Sunday, May 1, 2011
Moving Cross-Country
If you've never had to move cross-country, consider yourself lucky. It's a lot of work. In an ideal world, you have an infinite amount of money, time, and resources to not only examine each and every possible scenario for what your life will be like once you get there. I don't believe that anyone really has this. If you have the money, you might not have the time. If you have the time, you might not have the money. Or, you might have money and time, but no way of making it out to the new area. It's always something. The greater the geographic distance, the harder it is. For us, it's a combination of all three.
When I found out Spencer's grandma wanted to take everyone on a cruise out of California, Spencer was in the middle of the interview process. Loma Linda was one of the first places he visited and he was absolutely in love with it. In his mind, it had everything a program could ever want and more. I was a bit more skeptical since it was one of the first and we were heading into another dreary Wisconsin winter so the appeal of somewhere warm was highly desirable, but as time went on it remained his top pick. So when it came time to book flights for the cruise, we decided that we would extend the trip by one day just in case we matched there so we could go look at housing.
Match day was about a week or so before we left for the cruise. When we found out that we were indeed headed to Loma Linda, we began immediately making plans for how we would get out there, what we wanted to do, and most importantly which areas we wanted to see. We contacted a realtor, and he set up a time for us to meet him and show us a few places.
Most of the places he showed us needed a lot of work. Many were banked owned properties. It's truly amazing how poorly some people treat their homes. In one house, the people had let their dog urinate all over the room they locked him up in. In another, they had let their cats and/or dogs tear up the carpet. Others were in comparatively better shape, but still had cosmetic defects (which we were OK with) or in some cases more serious defects (like water damage) which we were not OK with.
One house stood out to us though. It was a lovely home, a bit small for what I though it should be, but it had a huge yard with a pool and more space than we've ever had. They had done a lot to build in storage and were the original owners. You could tell that they had worked really hard to keep up with the place and really loved it. So, we made an offer. We low balled a bit, but not much, because the other homes in the area we selling for less. They didn't negotiate. We walked.
At this point we were back in Wisconsin and I was freaking out. We didn't really have the time or money for another trip. We needed a place to live. We didn't know how we could find one without actually being in California to look.Miraculously, I was given the opportunity to be flown out to California for two job interviews. Despite being deathly ill, I was able to make it to both interviews as well as visit a property. It turned out to be just the thing we were looking for. We're still in the process of finalizing things because it's a short sale, but we will be able to rent it on a month to month basis until then.
So, at least that part is taken care of. We have a place to live. I've put my notice in for my last day at my job, and we now have a tentative move date. The pieces are slowly coming together. All that's left is to sort out the details.
When I found out Spencer's grandma wanted to take everyone on a cruise out of California, Spencer was in the middle of the interview process. Loma Linda was one of the first places he visited and he was absolutely in love with it. In his mind, it had everything a program could ever want and more. I was a bit more skeptical since it was one of the first and we were heading into another dreary Wisconsin winter so the appeal of somewhere warm was highly desirable, but as time went on it remained his top pick. So when it came time to book flights for the cruise, we decided that we would extend the trip by one day just in case we matched there so we could go look at housing.
Match day was about a week or so before we left for the cruise. When we found out that we were indeed headed to Loma Linda, we began immediately making plans for how we would get out there, what we wanted to do, and most importantly which areas we wanted to see. We contacted a realtor, and he set up a time for us to meet him and show us a few places.
Most of the places he showed us needed a lot of work. Many were banked owned properties. It's truly amazing how poorly some people treat their homes. In one house, the people had let their dog urinate all over the room they locked him up in. In another, they had let their cats and/or dogs tear up the carpet. Others were in comparatively better shape, but still had cosmetic defects (which we were OK with) or in some cases more serious defects (like water damage) which we were not OK with.
One house stood out to us though. It was a lovely home, a bit small for what I though it should be, but it had a huge yard with a pool and more space than we've ever had. They had done a lot to build in storage and were the original owners. You could tell that they had worked really hard to keep up with the place and really loved it. So, we made an offer. We low balled a bit, but not much, because the other homes in the area we selling for less. They didn't negotiate. We walked.
At this point we were back in Wisconsin and I was freaking out. We didn't really have the time or money for another trip. We needed a place to live. We didn't know how we could find one without actually being in California to look.Miraculously, I was given the opportunity to be flown out to California for two job interviews. Despite being deathly ill, I was able to make it to both interviews as well as visit a property. It turned out to be just the thing we were looking for. We're still in the process of finalizing things because it's a short sale, but we will be able to rent it on a month to month basis until then.
So, at least that part is taken care of. We have a place to live. I've put my notice in for my last day at my job, and we now have a tentative move date. The pieces are slowly coming together. All that's left is to sort out the details.
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